He's left me very confused

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Hiya there , as you all seen before my ex text me saying he wasn't interested and didn't want an us and I accepted and just left as is and took all your advise.

Anyways I had our sons first birthday party on the 16th a few days after I posted about him saying that and he came with his mum and his brother and we co-parented for our child's sake to make it a good day for him. After that day we have been getting closer and closer , like he's been trying to text me a lot more and keeps messaging me out the blue a few days after not speaking that he misses our lo and to tell him that he loves him etc.

Anyways last Friday he went out with mates and asked to see lo as he's got a new job working away and only gets to see lo on a Saturday overnight. I agreed and he came over and was playing about with our son and then asked me to call him a taxi home which I did.

The taxi called to say it was outside and we walked him out and he kissed our son goodbye and then kissed my cheek and pulled me in and kissed me passionately on the lips. It all just happened out of the blue and so quickly I never even had the chance to say what you doing. He then says my taxi is there I need to go and that was it. He text me when he got in saying I just miss him so much when I don't get to see him. I never mentioned the kiss as I don't want it to ruin that we've just started getting along for lo.

But I'm left very confused and have mixed emotions. Is he confused ? Why'd you think he done it ??

Sorry I had to write and get it off my chest , been overthinking every night and it's messed with my head.

Yes I quite understand your reasons for being so nasty.
What I don't understand is why you would continue to waste yiur precious time and energy on what you think is a lost cause as the op doesn't listen.
Just ignore, don't reply, move on.
You have no idea what the op or others are going through. Only what you read on here. Your negative comments may be enough to do serious harm.

@harriethoyle Thank you. Does that mean I have to return my bitch badge?

@tessiegirl If you think I was nasty, you should have seen some of the postings by others on some of the previous repetitive threads. Makes mine look like a walk in the park.

The only person doing serious harm to the OP is the OP herself and this latest arsehole of hers. What about the harm all this is doing emotionally to the poor child in all of this?

Maybe the OP won't listen to a blunt wake up call, that's her choice. But maybe a few other posters will stop and think they have better things to do with their time and help people who genuinely want to improve their situation.

@shatnerswig NEVER! Wear it with pride

@harriethoyle Is it like a Blue Peter badge? Does it get me free entrance to places?

Proud of your bitchiness? Oh dear. You are a grown man!!!

@tessiegirl Where did I say I was proud of it? I think you'll find another poster suggested I wear it with pride. Never mind.

Posters like you do not help these situations. You need to learn to keep your unhelpful comments to yourself.

'Is it like a Blue Peter badge?'
Reeks of pride to me. Never mind.

@harriethoyle The thread police are among us

@shatnerswig thought I could smell delicious bacon. If we're not careful, Tessie might thcream and thcream until she's thick at our temerity in responding to a post on the internet!!

Although you may post with the best of intentions, and whilst you may give advice based on having been asked to do so, no one is obliged to follow your advice. Tis life, no use being too invested. People must do what they feel is best for them, even when all available information suggests a poor outcome.

So grown up

@MiniTheMinx I totally agree. People shouldn't become too invested. This is why they have a right to know if a poster has repeatedly posted about a situation every couple of months, usually starting two or even three threads about the same thing on the same day, and not take one tiny bit of notice of any advice given over months and months. If they then choose to continue to advise they do so armed with the full knowledge necessary.

Yes exactly. Don't become so invested that you feel the need to warn people off numerous threads.
Let people decide for themselves.

No, I pointed out on this thread that this is a prolific poster. I have not been on any other of her threads to say "don't comment". In fact, I haven't said on this thread "don't comment". I'm just presenting the facts and people can then choose.

You, however, have derailed the thread by making it about me when others have equally expressed exasperation on this thread about this poster, but you've only taken against me. I have merely defended my position when you challenged. You are free to disagree as is your right, as is my right to post what I posted. As it is for everyone else. I merely filled in some blanks and others have backed me up.

What I find fascinating among all the outrage about what I said is that I am the ONLY poster on this thread to have raised the fact TWICE that there is a child getting mixed up into all this. That seems to have been completely overlooked.

Or maybe just change the advice and tell the OP what she wants to hear? "Clearly this man adores you, OP, and he just can't keep away. He can't help himself. It must be your beautiful face, your seductive figure and your amazing personality. It's written in the stars". Will that do?

Oh @Singlenotsingle you naughty poster, you

Lololol @singlenotsingle

And who are you to 'present the facts'?
If you really cared for the child mixed up in all of this you would not try to derail this thread to make out the op never listens to anyone. She needs support. Not nasty, unhelpful and bitchy comments from the likes of you.

Singlenotsingle and harriethoyle are just as unhelpful. Clearly a bitchy group of posters who know one another well!

If you really cared for the child mixed up in all of this you would not try to derail this thread to make out the op never listens to anyone.

Sorry, surely repeatedly posting the same problem with never any progress is the very definition of not listening to anyone.

It is useful information for other posters, because without it, they might buy into the op's interpretation of whichever of her ex's actions she's currently obsessing over, which ultimately is bad for her, (if she's posting in good faith).

Ok your an idiot and a drama queen and I fear for your child.

My grieving 10 year old has more dignity in her urine that you have In your whole body.

Your pathetic and.already setting a disgusting example to your child.

OK, well that rather puts Shatners comments in the shade.