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He refers to his underwear as pants and...

88 replies

user10000012 · 26/02/2019 20:35

Actually wears pants rather than boxers.

Is this normal?! He’s 39 and I’ve never seen this before in my years of dating!

OP posts:
NaughtToThreeSadOnions · 26/02/2019 21:00

Preumably your dad was an adult wearing pants

As for men you've known wearing boxers, obvoiysly boxers were right for them pants are for your current male

zzzzz · 26/02/2019 21:02

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Singlenotsingle · 26/02/2019 21:02

So what do you call YOUR bum coverings, OP? In our house, they're all pants.

AloneLonelyLoner · 26/02/2019 21:03

What on Earth. I'd be really annoyed if my partner expected a say in what underwear I chose. My privates. My pants. Plus he can call them what the feck he likes!

Arowana · 26/02/2019 21:03

I wouldn’t have a problem with this personally.

PeterPiperPickedWrong · 26/02/2019 21:03

Never seen a man in pants other than my dad as a child! Always been boxers.

Do you mean briefs? Like this?

BertrandRussell · 26/02/2019 21:04

I prefer the look of boxers. But they are still pants, surely? You don’t actually call them boxers?

VelvetPineapple · 26/02/2019 21:04

Everyone in our family calls their underwear pants. Even the baby’s nappies are called pants!

NameyMcNameChange1 · 26/02/2019 21:04

I’m not sure what you expect him to call them other than pants, if they are pants. Dh has always been a pants fan. I was slightly surprised when I saw them for the first time as I had always thought of them as an old man thing. He claims boxers make his balls hurt though and he can wear whatever he likes. He did also wear speedos for general hanging around at the beach/ pool though. That was my line in the sand andI told him that I’d be pretending I didn’t know him unless he got some swimming shorts instead.

Hedgehogblues · 26/02/2019 21:05

My partner hates boxer's. He says they don't give him enough support.

macblank · 26/02/2019 21:05

Are you talking about Y-fronts or briefs?

I wear boxers, but still call them my pants. Pants in the UK, is a very generic word, like hoover. There are several types n style, but all called hoover.

So got no problem as a man, that he says pants, but... Bit weird (to.me) he still wearing briefs or Y-fronts.

Aus84 · 26/02/2019 21:07

Budgie smuggler swimwear is making a comeback in Aus... have been seeing a lot of .... tan lines.

origamiunicorn · 26/02/2019 21:07

Maybe OP means these snort 😆

RavenLG · 26/02/2019 21:08

I don’t like the look of briefs either, like you say only man I’ve ever seen in them is my dad and he calls them knickers which makes it worse Grin

For what it’s worth, an ex colleague and his boyfriend both wear briefs (young, very attractive gay men who share way too much on Instagram) so maybe he’s just stylish? Grin

origamiunicorn · 26/02/2019 21:08

Must remember to delete these before I open my phone on this in work tomorrow*

Offside · 26/02/2019 21:09

David Beckham wears pants - well, he does in those adverts, just saying 🤷🏻‍♀️

gamerchick · 26/02/2019 21:09

This is one occasion I would like to see the reaction if a man said he found his partners knickers off-putting and preferred she wore something less comfortable instead.

Singlenotsingle · 26/02/2019 21:13

My dp and DS will only wear boxers but they have to be the soft jersey ones cos they're more comfy. We still call them pants though.

Rainbunny · 26/02/2019 21:13

Boxers are a terribly designed underwear garment and every partner/husband I had/have has complained about them. Ugly but comfy y-fronts seem much more practical and if I refuse to wear thongs everyday because they're uncomfortable for me, then who am I to judge?

museumum · 26/02/2019 21:15

We all call our underwear pants Confused
Dh’s are jersey fitted shorts. Mine mainly bikini some boy shorts.
Kids are more traditional “pants” shapes I guess.

PatchworkGirl · 26/02/2019 21:15

I call all men's underwear pants unless I need to be specific for some reason. I assume you are referring to a specific style of (what I call) pant? Are they tight?

BlackCatSleeping · 26/02/2019 21:16

This thread is bonkers Confused

I didn't think men really wore boxers these days. The boxer-briefs that origamiunicorn posted seem more popular.

Namechangedbecauseiwantto · 26/02/2019 21:19

I call them pants, and sometimes even pantsloooons .

MumsyJ · 26/02/2019 21:19

Nothing wrong with them being called pants or him wearing pants. But hey, if you don't like it, you don't... fair enough.

"Big fuck off granny pants" fucking hilarious 😂

Mummyoflittledragon · 26/02/2019 21:20

If you mean briefs. I agree I don’t find them attractive.