feeling pretty fed up because dh and I never seem to get any time together at all. DS is 14 months, and I suppose we knew it was going to be hard in the early years but I feel like we're two flatmates who have a child in common. DH is a wonderful dad, but works odd hours, he's usually coming in about ten at night which is about the time I go to bed (his body clock is totally different to mine, night owl, lark blah di blah.)
As a result we never spend any time together when we're not parenting. We were together a long time before having our son, and I really miss the times we'd go camping, out for the evening, or just lie in bed all day. Our relationship has gone out the window. If we do socialise it is separately as someone has to be at home with the baby, and as his friends keep similar hours to him he stays out until 3am. I'm usually in bed by ten pm. Any suggestions (not a meal out - he hates restaurants!!! And I think it's a bigger problem than can be solved by a fancy dinner!)