Husband been booking prostitutes

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Hi,

I'm looking for help, I really don't know what to do. I have just found emails from my husband trying to arrange to see two different prostitutes. I'm away having a holiday with family with our 6 month old baby as he has a lot of work on this week. I'm ashamed to say I checked his emails, something I've never done before but I've felt uneasy. He's emailed one woman asking how it works and making an appointment. He cancelled the appointment because of the weather. He asked the other for an appointment, she replied the next day, then he said he was busy but would definitely like to see her at some point. When I called him out on it he apologised over and over, said he was embarrassed and was doing it to get a kick as porn doesn't do it for him anymore and he wouldn't have gone through with it and felt stupid. Has anyone got any experience in this or advice? I feel lost, unattractive and so so sad xxx

He's a twat.

You deserve better.

My husband has done this to me. I wish I had taken the courage to get rid of him.

I will never trust him or forget what he did to me. Two days before I had a c section. Caught him numerous times on text too. I'm a weak fool. Don't be me. I lost my mind over it.

Have you managed to get home yet?

So the one time you chrck his emails you find this? nah he’s donr this before and shagged prostitutes he’s just not got around to deleting the evidence and why the fuck are you feeling bad about yourself get a grip you’ve found him out to be a dirty cheating piece of shit that’s the reality of it be glad you’ve caught him this time and get rid before you end up bitter and without any sellf respect because you have continued to give your consent to be treated like you’re nothing

On these types of threads a lot of people get caught up on the debate of “would he have gone through with it or not”. It doesn’t matter. The OP can do better. She can be with someone who doesn’t even send those messages in the first place. Why agonise over whether to try and “save” this relationship? Just end it and be with someone who won’t put you in that situation....ever. Life is too short to settle.