Please can some one help me because i don't know what to do.
I've just found out i'm pg with my 3rd baby and i'm quite excited about the idea. My dh on the other hand is not.
As soon as i told him he said that i needed to go to the docs asap and arrange an abortion. I do know everyone has there own opinion on this matter, but i personly feel that i would be murdering my own child. I just couldn't do it.
I love my husband very much and our relationship is one that is fantastic. But i dont feel that he's being very reasonable.
If i keep this baby Then eventually he will come round to the idea but i dont think things would be right. He'd probably feel resentful towards the child for ruining our relationship. (I don't know that for certain though)
On the other hand if i get rid of this baby (sounds awful i know) then he will be back to normal. He will touch me ,speak to me and even laugh with me. The trouble is i will always have a black cloud over my head. I dont think i would ever forgive myself.
Normaly our relationship is always on top form. We have regular sex. we laugh we joke and we are best of friends. We have just come to a large hurdle and i'm not sure how to get over it.
Thankyou for reading this far if you have, and i would apreciate any honest opinions on what you would do.