Hi, has anyone been in the situation where they have fallen in love with a mummy's boy and she is the one who eventually ends the relationship. When I was with my boyfriend, she could never leave him alone five minutes, without knowing where he is and what he is doing. Although I do respect the fact that family is close, I think she was so involved, that she became a party in our relationship. His Dad and brother were both welcoming but I don't think I lived up to his mum's expectations. I think it goes a bit far, when your boyfriend talks about his mum in bed and she texts to ask what his doing, just after having sex. Now I feel like I've been used for sex and that it was just a Christmas fling, when I really thought we had a future together. He even agreed that we did and that he would always love me. I still care about him, but I don't know why after I've been treated this way. He suffers with anxiety and I tried to be supportive but I feel this has been thrown back in my face. I tried to be as honest as possible about the fact that crying all the time would impact our relationship. He was the one I wanted to be with, but I couldn't provide him with a perfect life and I did tell him this. I always thought in relationships you should try and work through things, rather than running away. I don't think that he was left with no choice, either his mum or me.