This guy is an ex from 5 years ago he moved to another country and recently came back. He was with someone in the other country for 4 years. Came back to England and then got into seeing someone really quick and said it messed him up and he was lonely and had some depression from trying to readjust and sort his life out. The day he ended things with her he messaged me. He said he wanted to for ages but thought it was inappropriate to when seeing someone else. Anyway we went on a date and it went great, it was like he had never left. We saw each other again Friday night and Saturday night. All was fine. He mentioned being a bit messed up from exes and so I thought I'd ask him where his head was at now.
He said he doesn't know what he wants but knows he doesn't want a relationship any time soon. He said with his exes he always put them first and now he is trying to put himself first and sort his life out. I said I was confused because then why did he message me? He said he wanted to catch up and see how I was but when he saw me all feelings came back. So now I'm very confused. He also said he isn't sleeping with no one else or speaking to no one else. Has no interest in going out to find someone. But I don't know what to do. We agreed to carry on as we are and go with the flow and see what happens. But I don't want to be left with him saying well I told you I didn't want anything and me heartbroken.