Hi everyone. I Just need some guidance here. I've recently ended a relationship with someone I'd been dating for 5 months. I ended it because I'm recently divorced and just didn't feel ready for another relationship. The split was fairly amicable, although he didn't want it to end and has asked me to reconsider numerous times. We met for coffee yesterday, because he said it would hurt him if I just cut him out completely. We had a nice chat about all sorts of things, stayed around an hour and a half and then got up to leave. We had a friendly hug in the car park and then I asked if he'd do something for me. I asked if he'd delete the intimate picture he has of me. He said yes but not right now....... this made me suspicious and so I asked him again if he'd delete it there and then. He refused. I actually begged him
to delete it four or five more times and he still refused. Now I'm not answering his calls or replying to his texts and he's saying I've hurt him. He's saying how could I hurt him like this at such a delicate time for him. Now I'm wondering if I am out of order?? My gut says that he has behaved despicably and that anyone who claims to have loved someone would have deleted the photo for them. I'm confused and really not sure where to go from here!