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Husband searching for day use hotels..

111 replies

letterbox · 15/01/2019 14:45

Hi,

So my husband has been a bit 'offy' and just not seeming him.

Curiosity got the best of me and I found he had been searching for hotels to stay in during the day. As in during his work hours.

Thinking the worst. Am I right, or could there be an explanation?

Not brought it up with him just yet, but I have taken photos of the searches.

OP posts:
Joboy · 15/01/2019 17:40

Put the phone number into in Facebook.
And add the number to you contacts .
Then check snap chat you might get a name that way .in the friends to add section
And then instragram. Might have to wait a day but will come as some one in your contacts .

LilyMumsnet · 15/01/2019 17:49

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YouDancin · 15/01/2019 17:52

Daily Mail "journalists" - what TWATS you are. Do you think this helps?
Is it an interesting read they way you have reported it? NO!
Interfering wankers.

I hope YOUR life is ruined by some HACK arsehole trying to cadge a cheap shot at your expense. Tossers.

RhubarbTea · 15/01/2019 17:53

Daily Mirror are massive twats. MASSIVE.

OP don't confront him until you have a lot more info. You will be glad you waited later even though it is hard. x

loveyoutothemoon · 15/01/2019 17:56

Day use rooms can be set out like an office too (with a bed also). As you said, he uses restaurants for meetings, maybe he wanted somewhere quieter.

But I don't know how likely this would be for your husband. I'd still definitely wait for more evidence before confronting him.

BlackPrism · 15/01/2019 18:36

Either, he's been fired, he's using prostitutes, he's having. An affair or he's willing to pay a lot for a nap.

Mooey89 · 15/01/2019 18:47

For fuck sake daily mirror you absolute exploitative cunts.
OP I’m really sorry you’re going through this.

Mummyshark2018 · 15/01/2019 19:33

Could he have lost his job and needing somewhere to hide during the day?

SuziQ10 · 15/01/2019 19:50

Find out more before you discuss it with him. Don't let him know you're suspicious.

Also, check for a second phone. Work phone possibly.

Look in his phone Map and see if it comes up with previous address listed.

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm · 15/01/2019 20:09

Sorry I posted I ncomplete instuctions.

Settings>privacy >location services>System services>Significant locations

Ashamedgirl · 17/01/2019 11:57

It could be an affair or could he have lost his job and is trying to stay out of the house during day time long shot I know but I'd rather think innocent until proven guilty x

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