Am I being unreasonable?
I have a constant knot of anxiety in my stomach. Yesterday I looked at my husband's phone (I know it's not right but I was so curious because things have been up and down between us). His facebook showed he had searched and looked at a woman's profile, his browser history shows porn and he follows random attractive women on instagram. He also receives sexually explicit/pornographic images/videos from the 'lads' via text message. I'm not overly concerned about any of them individually as I know some of this is just laddish behaviour but putting it all together - and the fact that I know these things aren't one offs, makes me feel sick. We have a 6 month old baby together. On top of that, I've had this ongoing issue with his recently where if he's in the room with our child alone he makes a point of turning off the baby monitor (it's not set up to watch him! It might just happen to be set up in the room he is in that's all). WHy make a point of turning it off? I have explained to him that it makes me feel uncomfortable as I can't understand a good reason why it will be in the forefront of his mind, he said there's something just a bit weird about a camera watching you. We had a big row about it and since then he has done it a number of other times. His response is he can do what he pleases. I have also brought up what I saw on his phone yesterday and all he's had to say about it is to try and turn it around making it all about him not believing that i've looked at his phone behind his back! never mind the stuff I found. All day he hasn't even acknowledged it. I feel like a piece of crap.