Found viagra in DPs jacket after night out

[cheatinghubbie]

With dp 17 years, three kids.

Basically he went out on staff night out the other night. I came down the following morning and was looking for money for kids book fair in school and looked in his blazer jacket and there was a four pack of viagra with only two in it.

I know from experience dp can't 'perform' when drunk. But we have never used it before.

The blazer was left in kitchen all weekend and moved today and I checked and viagra is gone.

My 'plan' was to let him put it somewhere else, leave it a few days and say I found it in underwear drawer or wherever he hid it but now I can't find it.

Think I'm just going to have to ask him out straight tonight.

He works with only men, but they meet up with a group of women they work closely with.

I sense something off here and you've fallen for his story!
You didn't mention why he chose to wear a blazer on a night out with Viagra in the pocket.. usual if he was planning using it with you but you weren't on this night out?

Honestly, he’s probably been using it without you knowing

As a bloke who's used viagra, a "normal" erection and a viagra erection are very different. After ejaculation on viagra it takes a while to lose the erection, whereas normally it's lost quickly. My DP says a viagra erection is much firmer too, and very noticeable as different.

A bloke lasts longer with viagra too.

Honestly I'm not worried.

He put the viagra into my bag! I think if he was using it with another woman he would be either hiding it or discarding it!

I hadn't mentioned it to him yet when I found it so he wasn't aware I had seen it.

I'm really not worried now but thanks for the concern!

And the other two Viagra missing?

Do guys actually have conversations with each other about the fact that they can’t get it up, that they need these little blue pills?

Also, do they give them out to each other like they’re sweets?

Oh come on....

Yes the apparently do! He didn't confide in his friend. A lot of men can't get it up when drunk, it's really not an issue.

His friend had them himself and it came up in conversation that it increases the height of orgasm and he said here have them!

It's really not a worry for me. Had he hidden them I would defo be still asking questions.

Why would he put them into my Sex bag?!

Do guys actually have conversations with each other about the fact that they can’t get it up, that they need these little blue pills?

God no. It's bad enough telling a GP.

@wheresthehope sorry meant to say to you, he got them on the night out!

Also can I just clarify HE CAN GET IT UP!!! 😂

He has absolutely no problems getting it up when sobar intact quite the opposite actually, I can't even brush up against him in bed without him getting hard!

So you found it in his pocket but left it as you were sure you’d find it again? You then just happened to go in the “The Sex Bag” and there it was? Were you checking in the hope it would be there? Why wouldn’t he discuss this with you? Is it good idea to take other people’s medication without a doctors advice?

Yes why did he put them in YOUR sex bag if they belong to him?

And the two missing from the pack?

The reason why I’m not buying into the bullshit is that my brother did the same to my sister in law. The same lines and lies. He was cheating her left right and centre. She still chose to believe him.

Good luck.

Yes I found it on Friday morning,

I said nothing as he was in bed and I was heading out with kids. I purposely put the tablets back in jacket and left them there, waiting to see what he said. I knew if I asked him out straight and if he said he got them from friend I wouldn't believe him.

I wanted to see what he did after with them. So Friday night, he was on night shift so didn't see him, I was also out at xmas party.

Sat night I was babysitting my niece overnight so was out of house. We both work shift and nights so didn't see much of eachother.

Sunday morning, jacket was still in kitchen with tablets in pocket!

So dp brought kids out to see him mum yesterday afternoon. I saw jacket had been brought upstairs and hung up so checked jacket again and they were gone.

I posted here and checked obvious places like underwear drawer etc I was really suspicious at this point and I thought it if was innocent he would just put it in his drawer. So then after I posted, I was cleaning upstairs and happened to think of our bag. It's under my bed and holds all our bits and pieces for the bedroom.

And there it was. I have no reason to lie, this is my life so I don't know why you think I would lie about where I found it. In fact I think you are just disappointed there's no dramatic ending so are choosing to not believe it!

We had had a small argument yesterday (just about kids l, nothing serious) so I waited until we were making up about that and I asked him where he got them and told him the story of how I found them. Simple as that, it's no big deal. We like to keep our Sex life interesting so we often buy new Sex toys etc so he just thought we could try this.

OP, read my earlier post. Men who can get it up perfectly fine take viagra for the extra firmness, duration and retainment of erection post-ejaculation. Some men do it in an attempt to become multiorgasmic, and when using viagra to do so often wind up with vascular damage. Some men are multiorgasmic naturally.

@ISpeakJive
It's not technically mine, it's ours, contains vibrators, lube, condoms, dick rings etc!!

And no it's not a good idea to use I prescribed meds. We both work in medical profession. He should know better, first thing I did was check they were in date! I won't be taking them anyway

@SimplySteve sorry that was directed at ispeak

Hmm, I wonder what happens if a woman does take viagra....

fact I think you are just disappointed there's no dramatic ending so are choosing to not believe it!

Not at all. Just sounds like a load of convenient BS.

Just keep an eye out OP. Don’t get complacent. It sounds like a very unlikely explanation.

Ok genuinely I am not complacent. My dad cheated on my mum many times. I know anyone is capable of cheating, definitely not naive but I know my DP and I know for a fact he would not put the viagra into my bag if he had be planning on using it with someone else.

I'm going to delete the thread now. I was going to keep it up but there's no point

Damn! How do I delete a thread?!

You can't delete a thread OP, you could try asking by reporting yourself.

If not, just press 'Hide this thread' and forget about it.

I don't find it beyond the realms of possibility that one man could say to a close male friend that he needs assistance and the friend to say ''here try these''. Am I really naive? I'm not married. I did date a guy who needed them but I have no idea if that was something he'd have shared with a male friend. Story all 'hangs' lol on that.

Could he have have got it off a friend and have been hoping to use it with you?

Cross post!

FWIW OP, I would believe him too if there's nothing else to make you suspicious. I also think you're right that there are posters hoping for a bit of drama at your expense.