SWC
Have a dangerous feeling that I cannot be bothered to explain to dh and patch things over one more time after the weekend inlaw fiasco. He is bending over backwards to be nice now (without admitting he did anything wrong) and actually his niceness after the event makes me more despairing. I value your advice because it sounds as if you have been there too - if you get time could you have another look at the dh being vile thread and advise. Thanks