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What's normal contact after first date?

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datingloon · 25/11/2018 23:09

Need some help in what's actually normal, past has been guys that are intense and text from morning till night.

Meet guy on tinder and we exchange messages for a week, not loads but one or two a day

We met Friday night and had great time, chemistry, laughed a lot and stayed in pub until we were kicked out at close and he offered to drive me home, once back at mine he asked if I would like to go out again, I said yes and we agreed to swap numbers on tinder, just friendly kiss on side of lips goodbye

He messaged on tinder around lunchtime on Saturday saying he had a good time giving me his number so I texted him a reply saying I enjoyed it to etc, we then exchanged 4 or 5 messages and left it with me saying " have a good evening" as he was out with friends last night.

Haven't heard anything at all today and not sure if I should read anything into it? On one hand I think he may text tomorrow or something to suggest 2nd date but then in the other think if he was interested I would get at least 1 message a day?

As I say I'm not really experienced in this dating as most men I know blow up my phone... and it always ends badly

Should I write him off as not interested just yet?

OP posts:
chestylarue52 · 26/11/2018 21:18

Above poster is correct. Unless I’m in a long term committed relationship I don’t want someone texting me saying “hope you enjoy your day!”. Actually, even then I probably don’t want it.

Why not just text saying would you like to get another drink this week I’m free Tuesday or Friday.

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