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sooooo if you were performing a striptease for your partner what music would it be to ?

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cheltenhamgal · 16/06/2007 18:58

I have always wanted to perform a striptease and my partner's eyes lit up when I suggested it so a) any tips and b)what music ?

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SlubberVSCQueen · 18/06/2007 22:14

well I may have mentioned it on another thread tonight but 'open-shut them' from the Rhythmn Time CD (Toddlers Term E), is a big fave in out house at the moment, but might also be appropriate for your needs.

SlubberVSCQueen · 18/06/2007 22:15

, sorry just read your last post , sorry.

cheltenhamgal · 18/06/2007 22:20

no worries honestly, over something really stupid and I was really upset but I suppose its his loss

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lou33 · 19/06/2007 08:48

you can always practise for the next more worthy man?

cheltenhamgal · 20/06/2007 14:02

lou I could do but I think it will be a long time before I trust another guy, this has really put me off

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lou33 · 20/06/2007 15:44

more time to practise and get it spot on?

sorry you feel so down

cheltenhamgal · 20/06/2007 18:30

I wouldnt say I felt down just very disappointed and crushed, that someone who professed to have such feelings for me and had planned things over the next few months with me could suddenly go so cold. I even think he has blocked me on msn. Jeez all I did was forget to give him some money, I have since sent it in the post to him as if I promise something I always do it.

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lou33 · 20/06/2007 18:38

that sounds totally ridiculous, i know it doesnt help but maybe better to find out how petty he can be now instead of later? were you with him long?

cheltenhamgal · 20/06/2007 19:08

now this is where I look stupid, I have known him since April but we have only been together a month. He made me feel so special, telling me I was beautiful, wonderful. The time we spent together was fantastic, loads of chemsitry. He would have been perfectly happy for us to just sit and talk etc. We had planned loads of stuff to do over the next few months. So to go from that and at 0500am monday morning a text saying he had got back home ok and loads of kisses to the text at 1501 saying he doesnt think it will work and total silence. Part of me is really angry with him for being so rude and ignorant. It has got to the point now where I don't want anything else to do with him, he isnt the man I thought he was

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cheltenhamgal · 20/06/2007 19:09

and yes obviously better to find out now than six months down the line

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cheltenhamgal · 20/06/2007 19:11

I seem to be paying for the mistakes he has made in the past with other women which shouldnt be so. jeez I would laugh if he comes on this site lol. wonder if he would recognise himself

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lou33 · 20/06/2007 19:13

it can be quite bewildering cant it? you think things are going along swimmingly, a new relationsip and all hopeful and then from nowhere it all comes down around your ears.

doesnt sound silly at all, i'm sorry i cant do anything about it

cheltenhamgal · 20/06/2007 19:16

honey please dont apologise, it has helped just knowing that I am not going totally mad lol - funny thing is we had just talked about monogomy and I was going to tell a couple of other guys that night I couldnt date them anymore, glad now I didn't

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lou33 · 20/06/2007 19:17

well there is a silver lining to every cloud then

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cheltenhamgal · 20/06/2007 19:19

thanks lou, for your feedback.

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lou33 · 20/06/2007 19:22

you cant help your feelings or when they arrive, can you?

cheltenhamgal · 20/06/2007 19:26

my mates all keep telling me I am too soft lol

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lou33 · 20/06/2007 19:27

just pretend you dont care !

lou33 · 20/06/2007 19:27

rejection is never nice

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