What do you do when you want them to leave for a while and they refuse?

[kittylette]

Im not talking a break up, just a few days.

I need some,space. But he wont give me some.

I dont want to go to my mums, why should I pack up half the house and go with 2 kids and try to fit into my mums house when he could grab an overnight bag and go to his mums.

Or you could work it through.

I just need some space, it will be worked through, I just want time alone first

Kitty - have you explained to him how you feel? I kind of understand why he doesn't want to move out, even for a few days. It's his home as well, and it's hard to expect him to move out unless you have very good reason.

you're supposed to be getting married in a few months?

yes we are,

we are totally i love but that doesnt mean that we dont have problems

then it's best to try and solve the problems together. Why do you want him to leave?

If you ask him to leave, that will only make him to feel insecure in your relationship. You can't ask him to leave every time you have problems.

i don;t think either of you should go

i think 'space' is too easily built up into splitting up

by all means sit in and sleep in different rooms, but you need to talk, talk, talk

what is the nub of the issue..what has triggered this