Have you ever had to end a relationship but that meant that...

[LindsayIt]

It would leave your ex in a really shitt Y position.

I can't do this any more. I'm miserable.

But my partner moved here to be with me. If we split it means no house, no money. We have no savings so no way to immediately set up an apartment. No family support for my partner.

Basically I would be throwing them under the bus.
But I'm so unhappy.

I don't kbow what to do.

I will. I'll have everything ready.

how you doing OP.. you getting through the week okay

Yes. My Ex and I moved to a city around 100 miles when we were together, living in my Godfathers flat. We split and I asked him to leave immediately and not to return. I sent my brother down wth all his things. Due to the nature of the split really. Had the ending been less acrimonious I would have let him stay whilst he made a plan at least.

Feel for you. Agree with what everyone else has said - good luck

If she tries to commit suicide, it is not your fault. I can’t stress this enough. You can’t change or control how someone acts. They are responsible for their own mental health. If you have been kind and have behaved well, you have nothing to feel bad about.