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Would you say no?

80 replies

Dhapeer · 13/10/2018 12:42

Not interested in happily marrieds responses.

If you're single and you saw a guy for a few months and he ended it and now wants to resume it on a shag only basis, would you?

If you really really liked him? Or would you say no entirely. He's moving to Australia after Christmas, but it would always have been a shag only basis.

Am I insane to consider this? The sex is worth it, but what am I signing up for?

OP posts:
DisgruntledMama · 14/10/2018 22:02

No! You're worth more than that. Tell him to do one.

TheMonkeyMummy · 15/10/2018 03:25

No way

Dhapeer · 15/10/2018 09:17

That's a good point. No, I wouldn't ask that of someone I knew was into me. I've cancelled our 'date'. He really is mean to do that to me.

OP posts:
Otterseatpuffinsdontthey · 15/10/2018 10:02

Well done you! Now, when you're in the right frame of mind, block all forms of contact.
You would need a heart of stone not to be affected by the way he treats you.
He's a cold fish.
Flowers

Chocolatecoffeeaddict · 15/10/2018 14:35

Good for you. Don't let a man treat you like this. You deserve a lot better, and avoiding this type of behaviour and having the cliche " self respect" will attract the right man to you.

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