Ladies help!!!! Man unsure if in wrong.

[Mehman]

Hello, first off sorry if this is in the wrong place but new to the site. Also i know the default is that I should assume im always wrong. Im married and have been for a few years now. Ones of my mates recently asked me to help him pull and be a wing man. Now before I agreed to it I thought I should check the wife was comfortable with this. She said no, fair enough but what's given me pause for thought is that she said I should never have even thought it could be okay. From my perspective I dont see what was wrong with what I've done as I have been open about everything considered her before I made a choice and respected her wishes. Should I not have even considered this?thanks ladies in advance.

Sorry though it seemed more polite than women.

Sorry thought it was more polite than saying women

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Yes, @SleepingStandingUp put it well. Tbh, OP, you might have stoked the fire on quite a few issues with this. Might be an idea to take her out for a meal soon.

It might help in the future Mehman to switch the situation around. How would you have felt if she’d proposed to chat up strange men in a bar in order to help her friend pull? I imagine you'd be less than enthusiastic.