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Should I contact his family?

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GirlabouttownxXx · 20/09/2018 21:22

Long story short. I’m 37 weeks pregnant and my ex partner has left the country and told me he can’t come back due to visa problems.

I don’t believe this to be true.

I feel that he is so scared to tell his family about this baby he would rather lie. So I’m wondering if I should make contact with his family. He says he has told them but again I don’t believe him.

I feel like he wants to pretend as though me and his child do not exist. I also feel that his family will be able to tell me the truth because he is a pathological liar.

What should I do? Any advice would be much appreciated

OP posts:
penisbeakers · 24/09/2018 08:43

I'm glad telling them went well for you. Hopefully they will be supportive to you and your baby in future.

GirlabouttownxXx · 24/09/2018 09:19

Thank you all so much for your words of advice and encouragement. It really means a lot to me.

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WaterOffaDucksCrack · 24/09/2018 17:26

Well done! I don't want this to sound patronising but I think you're so brave! I wish you and the baby all the luck in the world

Rebecca36 · 24/09/2018 17:41

I'm so pleased you've told his mum. I hope good things will come out of this. Congratulations on having a baby!

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