Right I really need some advice.
I had a message last night from the wife of a married man I had a relationship with. It started in 2014 and finished the same year. It then restarted in late 2016 and finished by feb 2017. I didn’t know he was married. He apparently has young children. She says she found a valentines card from me to him and that he says I was his stalker. I’ve replied to the message saying it’s priobsbkh best we speak over the phone. Please, please advise me. Should I lie and risk my happy (very recent) marriage to save his? I honestly did not know he was married. What do I do? His wife deserves the truth, I’d want to know if it was me no matter how painful. I feel so awful for his family.