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Suspicious and need help 'find my iPhone'

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145234LJ · 10/09/2018 21:53

DH has warned me he's going out on Thursday eve, with friends over an hour away. In all the time we've been married (15 years) I don't think he's ever gone out on a week night with these friends. Given that he'd be getting the last train back (11pm) and won't get there until 8pm it just doesn't seem believable that he'd make the effort to do that on a week night for such a short period of time. Especially as he only spent the day with these friends just last weekend.

I queried it and sounded surprised but he brushed it off and I got busy dealing with the kids. I've just sat down and it popped back in my head. It really seems strange. Marriage has been very rocky the past year.

I'm not a snooper but am genuinely baffled as what to do here. Instinct tells me something's not right. I don't know his password for his iPhone login or else I could just use Find My IPhone from his iPad on Thurs eve. Any other suggestions as to what I can do?

OP posts:
Haireverywhere · 11/09/2018 19:08

@AngkorWaat glad to hear how it worked out and you're now happy.

The OP may be getting her ducks in a row before confronting because of reasons unknown to us. Who knows what's going on but I do hope everything works out. It's obviously not a healthy relationship but the OP will know that!

chasinggarlic · 11/09/2018 19:53

boom

It was a typo. Sorry didn't realise. It was during a relationship not working a relationship.

The point is it's not normal behaviour. If something drives you to behave in such a manner then yes, something is far wrong.

wombatron · 11/09/2018 22:38

Sorry, I missed your @ to me. I don't think you can do it with WhatsApp. imsg and find my friends you can

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