I’d really appreciate some advice as I haven’t told anyone else what’s going on. In a nutshell, with my ex for about 3 yrs on and off. We loved each other but circumstances kept us apart. Split for good in October last year but he kept contacting me even though he finished it. Went on for a few months and we ended up sleeping together a few times. About a week after the last time I saw him with another woman in his car. Cut a long story short I find out he’d been with her all the time he was with me as well but I had no idea. I cut all contact with him but a few weeks later I discover I’m pregnant. I tell him and he says he’ll tell his gf what’s been going on. We decide a termination is the only option given situation. He hasn’t finished with her yet (4 weeks in) and told me the other day he’ll do it once he’s been away to celebrate her 40th at the end of the month. In the meantime I’m left at home knowing he’s with her whilst I’m struggling with the decision I’ve made. The date of the procedure will be a few days before he goes away so I’ll be on my own to deal whilst he’s away. Says he doesnt want to spoil her birthday!! Am I being unreasonable expecting him to finish with her sooner so he can support me? Sorry for long post but feel like I’m going mad with this going around my head...