Am I imagining this?

[onemoresmartie]

Me and OH we're out on Saturday night and were quite drunk but I remember most things that happened ie conversations, walking home etc

I looked on my online banking this morning and there are 2 separate transactions on my bank account to him totalling £150!

I woke him up and asked him wtf it was? And he said oh yeah don't you remember you asking me to play online roulette on Saturday night?

I said no I don't remember doing that and he said he was upset about it?

He does gamble every now and again...I'm not happy at all and the fact he didn't mention it at all yesterday and I only knew about it when I checked my account this morning

Don't know what to do 😩

Now he's throwing in the fact he lent me £40 here and there...that is different to him gambling £150 of my money isn't it?

I think you should go to the police.
If a woman can't remember giving consent to sex when drunk is considered (tightly) to be rape, then not being able to give access to or giving money when drunk is theft surely.

Now he's throwing in the fact he lent me £40 here and there...that is different to him gambling £150 of my money isn't it?

Yes of course it’s difgerent because him lending you money will have happened with you asking and him consenting, none of that happened with you’re money. Tell him you’re going to report him and if he tries to say you agreed again tell him you’ve contacted your bank and have proof of the times so you know you were asleep.

Feel like I'm having a panic attack, shaking and feeling sick...he has straight away changed his profile pictures back to just himself

Is it too early to block?

Block.

Do you have any real need to be in contact with him now?

Sounds like you're well rid of him

Definitely don’t give the keys back until he gives you back the £150!!!

You do know he will be back with this tail between his legs once his money runs out, don’t you?

Check your list of fingerprints. If you were so deeply asleep he used your fingerprint, he could have added his own as a means of access to your phone - and therefore your bank account. I saw youve ended it but it could give an explanation that would make a bit more sense about how the money was spent... I'm sorry OP but you are well out of this one and I agree with other posters. His keys should cost him the £150. for you.

I would 100% threaten to report him to the Police, if the £150 isn't in your Bank by cob tomorrow. You have nothing to lose. And £150 to gain.

You'd be crazy not to report this fraud, OP. How dare he take advantage of you like that?

A week on I don't think reporting it is a good idea...I need to write off the money
I've asked him if he wants me to go and get him and bring him back to mine for the evening so we can sort things
He has declined so there's not really any way forward. I can't be the only one fighting anymore

He doesn't want to give you the money back.