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OLD and looks/weight

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PookieDo · 28/08/2018 08:19

Generally speaking I know I could probably do with losing a stone or 2 but 99% of the time I don’t give it much thought. I am single though and don’t have to be naked around anyone... I kind of would like to be at some point though

I am 5’6, a 14-16 and not sure what I weigh, maybe around 13 stone. Boobs/bum big legs etc. I try to dress nice for work but not into skimpy clothing anyway.

I am unsure about what to have on an OLD profile body wise, especially when I just don’t have any full length photos of myself and taking a selfie feels really very cringe! But I don’t want to ‘catfish’ anyone!

My last partner had a way of making me feel odd about my body - he liked my sexual organs a lot and me in bed but didn’t really seem to fancy my body much. I’ve had 2 kids, it’s not what it once was!

I have been swapping really funny old photos (think fancy dress) with a guy online and realise I look really slim in them. I made it clear that these are old but did not go as far to say ‘I’m bigger now’ as that must also be a huge turn off

In a nutshell do you draw attention to your figure or not?

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PookieDo · 28/08/2018 19:23

The guy I like has just told me his ideal type is Nigella Lawson (pre weight loss) so I’m not worrying as much about my figure now 😂

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MyRelationshipIsWeird · 28/08/2018 20:42

You’ll have to practice dipping your finger seductively in his soup and making double entendres Grin

PookieDo · 28/08/2018 22:22

I am just not that sexy. I would end up with it all on the floor

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