I've been on and off with someone for several months. He says hurtful things like he isn't sure if he loves me and then if I break up with him he cries and says he does love me and please will I give him a chance. This man is in his 50s. He is always contacting me and saying he wants to meet.
So the other day I messaged him saying 'are we back together?' And he replied the following ;
'You know I think a lot of you Electra and I've said I need space so if we are going to continue to meet I think its needs to be made clear from both of us that right now we are meeting as friends. I don't know what I want right now, but it's not to say that I don't want you. I don't want a situation where we start develeping deeper feelings which can hurt either of us at any stage if it came to a situation where that could happen. Hope that makes some kind of sense 😘 xx'
This is bullshit, isn't it? I've just told him I'm done with the situation. Why do people behave like this? It makes me angry.