Hi, I need help with something, please don't take the piss or judge me...

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Ive been spending time with a woman ive known for a long time, but became friends recently. Shes a bit kooky,a bit different.

I was out with her yesterday and I dont know if theres something more between us.

She kept saying things like im gorgeous, and her husband thinks im well fit and that im beautiful ect.

And a few other things but I dont really socialise alot - and have no female friends, is this something women just say generally anyway?

Or am I looking into it too much?

Im not looking to have a lesbian affair or anything!! Im just not sure if its a normal way to be or if theres something else. If that makes any sense at all!

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If she is making you feel uncomfortable then you shouldn't spend so much time with her.

I must admit that my first thought was that this woman is probably after a threesome. I personally would find it a bit weird if someone kept telling me that their husband thought I was fit etc.

noooooo

God thats not it at all!

I didnt mean it like that,

she said that in passing, I meant do you think theres something between us?

God this is so embarressing, she doesnt want that, i know that, she told me that thing about what her husband said in reference to something else - makes no sense to you I know, but I know she wasnt implying that.

I think I have a crush on her

and because shes so confident and beautiful, and quite touchyfeeling im thinking does she feel something too?

or are some women just like that?

I feel so stupid

this woman either wants a threesome or is just being nice! Does she feel your confidence needs a boost? I think its good for women to compliment each other, but for her to say her husband thinks you are fit........im not sure i would say that to someone, but then my husband wouldn't DARE comment on the fitness of my friends!

Oops! Sorry, FSBNH.

please don't feel stupid! Yes, some women are like that, and you did say she was KOOKY! I have had sort of crushes on women before, but i dont think i am bi sexual or anything, because the thought of.......well, you know leaves me cold. But i think i know where you are coming from. she will be flattered you feel she is lovely and cvalue her comments.