So following up from another thread about a guy whom I had been seeing for nearly 2 months was still on Tinder. Seeing him was making me feel very stressed but I talked myself into giving him the benefit of the doubt and see how things went.
Today was the first time in 3 weeks we were both in town. He had asked me out for dinner tonight 3 days ago. This morning he said he could not wait to see me.
Today at 4pm he texted me saying that actually, he had forgot he had a dinner with friends, but he would text me after dinner and what were my plans for tonight anyway? 
He wasn't even apologetic. I told him things aren't working for me so we should leave it here.
I feel proud of myself for being able to see the signs of a half-interested man early on, and having the spine to act on those signs even though I really like him. Only a couple of years ago I would not have been able to see and do that.
"If it does not feel right, it isn't right."