Wwyd-been wendied but she has my stuff

[niketrainersarecomfy]

Hi
Just that. Best friend all of a sudden wanted no contact, took ages to reply to texts after yrs of texting every day. Weekly meets were reduced and if i asked she would suggest in 3 months time!
Turns out she has a new friendshio group particularly a new best friend and was irritated by me. I sent a birthday card and present and she thanked me coldly by text in march. I was gutted, but have my dignity so said 'its ok youre welcome'.
No texts since and she hadnt got in touch.
Im kind of ok now, though hurt, but wasnt humiliating myself by being unwanted.
However she has 200 quids worth of my stuff which id like back. Half of me wants it but i thunk being dignified and leaving it will make me feel better even though it pisses me off.
Wwyd?

niketrainersarecomfy I know it feels shit now and it's a massive dent in your confidence to get wendied but in the long run she'll be the lonely one. I had a 'friend' at Uni who completely ghosted me after we'd left. I should have seen the warning signs; for her 30th there was only her and me that went out. No other friends. It's really sad that she doesn't keep her friends long enough so that she's surrounded by people who really know her. You'll be glad you're rid of her once you get over the rejection