Thread sort of off the back of another thread.
But surprised how many people advise against telling a new wife that her new marriage is based on lies.
So, if your husband had been cheating on you in the run up to your marriage would you want to know or would you think ignorance is bliss.
I'd rather know myself. I've wasted too many years on an abusive man. It's better to get used to being single.
I vote - Yes, have the information. Awful though the shock may be.