Really hoping you lovely ladies can help .....
Bit of background info . Been with my OH 7 years TTC first baby.
In February I found messages on his phone to two different women . (Women one) he was asking if she wanted to be in his bed.
(Women two) He was asking if they could meet .
I asked him about these and he said it was just a joke so I let it lie
Weekend after he was messaging women 2 again . I blocked and deleted her number and blocked her on his FB only to find a few days later she had created a group on fb and was messaging him again (only them two in group) so he’d unblocked her obviously I hit the roof.
Then women 3 he got his friend to take him 14 miles away to pick her up from a night out (found messages) he was telling her he cared about her ect
Tonight . Messaged women 3 asking why they didn’t go out of town ect and then checked she’d got home
Women 4 - I called him about 1am to see where he was and he said he was walking home , i offered to pick him up and he said he was nearly home 25 mins later he got in . It’s a 10 min walk . I asked him where he’d been and he just said out , said he walked home alone .
Something didn’t seem right so I looked at his phone now he’s passed out drunk .... women 4 messaged him saying thank you for walking me home (sent at 1.34) he replied it’s ok I will always look after you .
I hadn’t heard from him since 8:30 until I called him . But he’s been messaging women 3+4 since 9pm 😡
Sorry for the long post . I am the jealous type because I’ve been cheated on before and I’m very insecure about myself. He’s promised before he won’t message these girls again but here we are again . I’ve conftinted him tonight but he’s drunk and it will cause an argument so I’ve come to sleep on the sofa . I know before I see him in the morning he will have deleted the messages and deny it all