So, my Husband cheated with a woman at work two years ago. I caught him out after seeing a message on his phone. This was four weeks after I miscarried at 12 weeks.
My Husband left his job and ceased all contact and we worked on our marriage. Due to being made redundant he became lazy and did not bother searching for a job, and after realising he needed to get back to work he walked out of a new job on the first day, doing the same work, and went back to where he had the affair. I told him I was not comfortable with it before he even spoke to his old boss, but he went ahead and did it anyway. He is now working 8-9 hour days with this woman which is making me very uncomfortable and anxious, and already causing arguments. We are barely speaking. AIBU to feel this way? He admitted that if the roles were reversed he would not let me do it!