OMG I can't believe what has I've just done is anyone around PLEASE?

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osj im so so sorry have been thinking of you all evening and hoping it was going well. had row with dh too so know exactly how your feeling and his sodded off to isle of white!

for you xx

Morning osj.

Im so sorry you are hurting. I know its so hard for you but maybe this temporary seperation is a blessing in disquise (sp?)It will hopefully make your h realise what he has / had. It will also give you time to breath without rowing.

I hope you are feeling a little more positive this morning honey.

{{{{lots of hugs}}}}

osj I completely understand that range of emotions. It's so hard isn't it.

I think you could maybe use this time constructively to see how much you really do miss each other and start to find ways that you can both make each other happy again.

I'm confident you'll make the decision that is best for you in the long run. Give yourself the time and space to do that.

(Didn't get on msn last night - as you will see from the other thread dh left for good. I will CAT you with mobile number.)

xx

I wont be around a lot today, but will check in later this afternoon.

Take care osj xx

You too littlestar. You must be feeling really crappy. Im so sorry this is happening to you aswell.

Thinking of you, Take care xx

thanks dionnelorraine

I am at the angry stage now so that will get me through the day! Have been taken for a mug for the last time!!

We'll get there in the end. Thanks

xx

Oh, honey. I really feel for you.

I was in an awful relationship before my dh. He was a LOT older than me and was jealous, violent etc. Held hot iron up to my face! I plucked up the courage to leave him. eventually. Best decision I ever made!

Stay angry at him! If he has treated you badly (dont know your situation) you dont need him!

Think of you!

xx

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Oh OSJ, Im so sorry to hear this. DP is still here, and we had a bad row last night. Its the inbetween bit thats horrible - like you say, sorting out finances, what do you tell children etc.

Keep talking to us here - someone is bound to be able to help with advice.

Whereabouts on Cornwall are you? Im near Tavistock, so parts of Cornwall are possible if you want to meet up.

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OSJ sorry to hear it has come to this but maybe as you have said it is for the best. Absent hearts and all that!

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Thinking of you OSJ xx

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Dior! I'm good thanks. How are you? Ive just read your post on the other thread. You say 'when h and I split'. Was just about to track you down and ask if you have come to a decision. So are you going for it then xx

PS its nice to have 'Dior' back by the way

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I know, i think we can forgive you for finding that bit hard . Its a very brave decision and a very brave move to go it alone as a single parent. But you know we will be with you every step of the way don't you. xx

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Yes, I know what you mean. Now personally, i think this is a nice stage, you drift along, you start beig nice to each othr, no pressure, no expectations, then suddenly you start to like them again. And like is good.

Also Dior, you don't have to 'dislike' him to have to leave. If you honestly don't love him and you want to be free to start again, alone, then thats perfectly ok. You don't have to have a bad relationship to want to leave. IN fact, it would be lovely, if you did decide to leave of you could part as friends.

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