Blue tablets in dps wash bag

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So , just got home from night out with friend so wine involved. DPs wash bag out from night away with work. As I was putting it away found some blue tablets in there called sildenafil which I googled and found they are sold as the brand name viagra. 3.5 of tablets are missing from packet. I've called dp twice and no answer. Then text to say I want to talk about what I've just found in his wash bag. No response yet. Should I be worried? No history of ED although we are having problems TTC as to not drip feed. I am v angry.

is a viagra an as and when thing or do you always have to take it for it to work?

@NotTakenUsername May have got the wrong end of the stick but am sure OP said it was his work wash bag?

@cricketmum84 you pull a whole new stick off the branch!

Reread the three posts from op. She says nothing of the sort!

Ok so @NotTakenUsername I'll put it another way. OP states that she emptied DH wash bag that he had taken away on work trip. Tablets are in said bag and in bedside drawer. All I'm saying is if I were in that position I would be asking why they were in a bag he had taken on a work trip if he already had them next to the bed?
Maybe I just have a suspicious mind!

OP states that she emptied DH wash bag that he had taken away on work trip.

You really do have a suspicious mind! She says she was putting it away, not emptying it!

Yep. The work trip is absolutely key here.

It’s a pity you’ve texted him already
Might have been better to play dumb ( pretend you not sure what they are ) and ask him about it face to face
Unfortunately he has time to create a story
They’re either used for erectile dysfunction or very rarely hypertension
As far as I know if he doesn’t have ed then they make a man stay harder for longer ( high percentage of male porn actors use them)
That’s all
I hope it’s not cheating

I’m just speculating here but I imagine they were in his wash bag because that’s a discreet place to store them. I keep my inhalers (and my birth control when I used it) in my travel wash bag. It was just a convenient place. Also lots of people use the bathroom to sort themselves out a bit before sex and that’s when you’d pop one. It would be a bit awkward to finishing around in the bedside table for one in the moment if he hadn’t felt comfortable saying he was trying them. That by itself doesn’t seem odd, especially considering op herself hasn’t noticed any red flags.

@NotTakenUsername ah but how would she know what was in it if she was just putting it away?
FWIW I'm sure it's entirely innocent... like I say though I have a suspicious mind

I just assumed he took his wash bag on holiday. Because you would wash on holiday. And I doubt he has two bags.

Lastname they are as and when

OP if he didnt get them from somewhere legitimate online (like lloyds pharmacy or another online doctor service) then take them to a pharmacy and report that you think they might be counterfeit (if you do think so).

If he needs more he can buy Viagra Connect (50mg) from a pharmacy after a very short chat with a member of staff (or he can get them from a legit online doctor or his GP; either of those will be cheaper). But obviously he doesnt want to be taking dodgy online ones.

@cricketmum84 it was knocked over and the contents spilled, or it was already open and she noticed the blue pills in the blister back as she was closing it...

I should write for some shitty bbc2 drama! 😂

Just to clarify the washbag situation. He only has one. He'd taken it on hol which is when he'd put them in there. He then used said bag again for work trip. Then (as usual!) Had left it out in bathroom. Thanks for advice 're disposal. I'll make sure they are safely got rid of.