Hi all,
I’m really a struggling at the mo with my husband, he had a night out a while back and I was told he had been caught kissing a girl he works with. I confronted him with it and he said he was so drunk he can’t remeber but he was so sorry, wasn’t meant to happen and he was totally in love with me! I decided to forgive him as it was just a kiss and move on.
Fast forward few weeks later and I have found out they have been messaging each other, this girl has called herself his bit on the side!! He says nothing happened and he not sure what he wants in life anymore, he really loves me but he’s just not sure. He says he feels empty and a weekend at home with me and the kids just doesn’t fulfill him anymore.
He can have days where he’s fine but then other days he says he needs space and I’m smothering him, I possibly am over the top at the mo as I don’t want to lose him as I love him so much!
Our sex life is back on track but he also says I have neglected him over the last 6 months.......something he never mentioned or implied until I found the messages. He also seems to be struggling with our kids reaching teenage years and no longer needing us there with them all the time, surely we want them to be independent tho!
I don’t know what to do for the best, this isn’t like him at all......he’s acting totally out of character but then when his mood isn’t low he’s back to the man I love. Any advice? Many thanks 🙏🏻