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Why is my boyfriends friend lying?

84 replies

Liley123 · 25/05/2018 21:28

Two weeks ago me and my boyfriend were drinking with his work friends (he started his new job two months ago) and his friend kept asking me what I do for my job, what sort of music I like and what I do in my spare time. My boyfriend was talking about what me and him do together and his friend, let’s call him bee, started to say “if I was your boyfriend” but got cut off by my boyfriend before he could finish his sentence. All night he was making me laugh and when I left I said by to everyone and when I was half way out the door he said “bye then liley” to which I replied “I said bye to everyone” he said “only to your boyfriend” so I said “bye bee” and he said “thank you, that’s better”. The next day I caught him staring at me through a fence then added him on Facebook the next day which he still hasn’t accepted.

A few days after I told my boyfriend that I caught him looking and he said I was probably other thinking and that he might have just been looking to see who was there. He said bee mentioned that I’d added him and asked him why I had.

I’ve just spoke to bee and he said “sorry I’m not being ignorant, I’ve just seen your friend request” which is obviously a lie. Why would he lie?

OP posts:
TheBogWitchIsBack · 26/05/2018 10:57

So you fancy him and you want to know if he fancies you?
This is all so childish.

NoFuckingRoomOnMyBroom · 26/05/2018 13:58

Are you very young OP?
Wtf would you add someone on FB after you caught him looking at you through a fence? (I'm also thinking wtf about that tbh Hmm )

CocoAndTheChocolates · 26/05/2018 14:21

I think is given you a bit of a buzz when you realised he fancies you and are now feeling a bit affronted when he hasn't reacted to your friend request in the way you hoped.

When someone else asked if you fancied him you didn't say no. This could get messy

Gemini69 · 26/05/2018 16:48

I feel sorry for your POOR boyfriend Hmm

Namechangedname · 26/05/2018 16:53

The next day I caught him staring at me through a fence then added him on Facebook

Whaaaaaaat?😂

Namechangedname · 26/05/2018 16:57

Who has time for this shit?

Grin
Namechangedname · 26/05/2018 17:01

Seems like you were the honeytrap, according to 🐝

WeAllLiveInACoffeeMachine · 26/05/2018 17:02

Is this you OP?

Why is my boyfriends friend lying?
Chippyway · 26/05/2018 17:06

How old are you??

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