Can't remember last night

[hurt86]

Sorry this will be rambled but I'm so confused.

Was out with dh last night and am so sore today, we were both really drunk but I can't remember having sex but I know he's had anal sex with me as well as regular

The worst part is there was a 4 second (pitch black you couldn't see anything but could hear muffled noises) video posted on his Facebook at 4am which I'm sure is him having sex with me.

He's now deleted it and said he's no idea how it got there. I'm not even sure if anyone who seen it would have realised what it was but I'm mortified.

He says I was up for it when we got home but it's all a blank, I don't even know why I'm posting I'm just feeling so ill and don't know where the night went wrong.

How do you know his state of drunkenness if you were in a black out?

I think that there is plenty to suggest that your drink may have been spiked. I would take a urine sample and keep it, as it may be something you wish to refer back to.

I would want him to give me a full account of his side of the story and again I would record it. People who lie often change their story as time goes by, but the truth does not change.

Could you talk to any people who were with you last night in order to discover what your (and his) behaviour was like?

Actually there could be a possibility your drink was spiked.
Do you suffer from memory lapses after nights out?
Did you leave your drink unattended?
How much had you had to drink in total that you remember.
A tell tale sign would be not remembering anything after a certain point for example, 20 mins after the last drink that you remember.