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Is my DP the laziest ever?

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lyrabelacqua · 14/05/2007 18:06

Last night DP went to bed before me. when I went up half an hour later I found him asleep underneath the huge pile of clean washing that i'd put on the bed to sort through and then forgotten about.
Rather than move the clothes into the washing basket, he just crawled in underneath them, pushing most of them over to my side so i had to move them in the dark.
Is this extremely lazy or is it just me?
He is a complete slob around the house in general and then complains when it's a mess.

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lou33 · 14/05/2007 18:08

i dont think you will find anyone who thinks that wasnt lazy

donnie · 14/05/2007 18:12

that is truly lazy!

why don't you sort out all the clothes except his and leave them in a pile on his side of hte bad until the penny drops? I would!

Ifonlyhewould · 14/05/2007 18:12

I wouldn't have moved them in the dark. I would have put the lights on full beam!!!

Anniegetyourgun · 14/05/2007 18:12

Nah, my STBXH did that when we used to share a room. Just the other week I put some clean laundry on a chair so he and the boys could pick out what was theirs, and he sat on it. Next day it was still there and he sat on it again. Since they weren't my clothes or DS4's I was blowed if I'd move it myself. Enough that I washed it IMO.

Guess that makes me the second laziest person ever, but I'm tired of it all frankly and am pretty much ignoring the mess. No-one else seems to care. His excuse for the house being untidy is that the council wouldn't let us build a bigger one.

lyrabelacqua · 14/05/2007 18:34

He's done it once before and i did turn the lights on then but then felt a bit mean.

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lyrabelacqua · 14/05/2007 21:53

I need more responses so I can print this out and show DP what a lazy arse he is

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HuwEdwards · 14/05/2007 21:55

he is a lazy git.

show him that.

Nikki76 · 14/05/2007 21:57

How romantic to come to bed to a pile of washing on your side! Tell your DP that he's failing in the Mnet romance stakes here!!

PeachesMcLean · 14/05/2007 21:57

My DH does that.

He's a lazy arse too.

Jomist · 14/05/2007 22:00

Yep that's really lazy. At least my dp would have thrown it on the floor

lyrabelacqua · 14/05/2007 22:08

Aaaaargh! Just showed him this thread and he just laughed. I guess his laziness is here to stay.

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lou33 · 14/05/2007 23:06

not if you boot him out it wont be

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