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He makes to much noise during sex

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TutTutButt · 31/03/2018 03:50

I have never been with a man who moans more than me but my Partner of 7 months does and it is annoying me..
he moans like you would expect a woman to moan
it is so off putting I hate it. Should I bring it up? does your partner moan a lot?

OP posts:
Pastaagain78 · 01/04/2018 20:23

Roll play ‘sex in the library’

GallicosCats · 01/04/2018 23:31

My suspicion is that you start getting irritated with things like this because it's slowly dawning on you that you don't actually fancy him that much.

Bixg · 02/04/2018 11:27

Someone once told me that they'd never been with someone who 'enjoyed' sex as much as me. I took it that he meant I was more vocal than he was used to. TBH it put me off for ages as it was a backhanded compliment. I was much younger then though and would love some mutually noisy sex now (it's been a while...)

If you bring it up after so long be careful with your words.

userxx · 02/04/2018 14:23

Nothing worse than a silent shagger.

DorynownotFloundering · 02/04/2018 14:34

Years ago I had a fling with a lovely RAF chap wno was a real gentleman.
So much so that he would politely enquire
"Have you climaxed yet" ? Easter Blush

I usually said yes to get it over with, but he was a silent shagger too & I couldn't bear it.
Otherwise he was a real sweetie but god he would have bored me to tears long term, bless him.

TheSassyAssassin · 02/04/2018 14:43

Literally PMSL Dory! Did he fondle his moustache when he asked you that? 😂

Tiddlywinks63 · 02/04/2018 14:56

dh asked once if I was awake so I try to mumble a bit here and there.

Priceless 😄

DorynownotFloundering · 02/04/2018 16:55

Sassy Not quite 😁
He was so heartbroken when I ended it, I think he thought he'd found The One, used to drive down from Lincolnshire to London just to see me regularly sigh I felt such a bitch 😓

Iona1 · 02/04/2018 16:57

Your either a moaner or not , guess it is up to you to decide if you can carry on like this , good luck

TheSassyAssassin · 02/04/2018 17:11

Aww poor RAF Chap indeed then Dory but can't help the chemistry....or lack thereof...

DorynownotFloundering · 02/04/2018 18:52

Sassy too true.

PsychedelicSheep · 02/04/2018 20:43

I like DP making noise. Not sure I’d like him moaning like a woman (thinking typical porn style woman moaning).

Maybe GallicosCats is right?

lattewith3shotsplease · 02/04/2018 20:50

OP,
Are you my neighbours Hmm

The bloody noise from the Man is ridiculous .Angry

lattewith3shotsplease · 02/04/2018 21:01

OP,
Try some earplugs...it'll muffle the sound. Grin

Bee2827 · 20/01/2024 05:47

My partner of 4 months (m) started moaning for the first time during intercourse recently. He’s been muted every other time. Does this mean anything in particular? Is he more comfortable now? We have sex 2/3 times a day so I assumed he would’ve been comfortable enough by now. He’s also been more affectionate but in the bedroom more ‘rough’ … I can’t help but tune into different behaviours so looking for some possible explanations please

maras2 · 20/01/2024 05:59

ZOMBIE.
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