I’m not even going to bother to make change.
He’s been different for months, Moody and not like himself. We’ve been fighting a lot. He’s generally being an asshole, nothing is ever his fault.
We had a big fight and I told him to just not come home if he wasn’t going to change his attitude. He said he was going to his mums... I felt really ill following a surgery I’ve had three weeks ago and didn’t want to be on my own with my DD’s. I felt really shaky, I threw up and was in pain. I text him repeatedly with no answer.
I called... He wasn’t at his mums.
I asked him where he was, he said he was out with a specific friend. He must not realise that I have that friends wife as a Facebook friend from years ago and could see that they are on holiday.
He continued to alternate between ignoring me and saying he was with this person.
I told him I knew he wasn’t, and who was he with.
I threw up again and was feeling really ill, I messaged him and asked him to come home because I was so ill, I couldn’t work DD’s TV (she has Sen) and I was literally on the floor in the hallway.
He text back no. He was going to spend the night at his mums.
I asked about ten more times and tried to call him.
He ignored most of it and occasionally text ‘sorry no’
Early hours he came in. He was pretty drunk. I asked who he’d been with and he said a name.
He fell asleep on the sofa and i slept in the bed with daughter who was upset.
This morning I woke up and DD was playing a game on his phone next to me.
I looked at it and said girls name had a message from her unread that said ‘thank you’
Nothing else which leads me to think he’s deleted it all.
I’m in pain and I’m upset and he keeps telling me I’m not thinking straight, he’s hot nothing to apologise for...
What do you think?