Don’t know where to start!!!

[Zeze247]

So I’m gay (well I’m in my mid 30s and have only ever been with women) but recently experimenting with the opposite sex for the first time it doesn’t repulse me and I cant believe I’m writing this but I’m starting to consider acting on it. Utterly confused too old for this shit 🤪 where do I even start!!

Think it’s always going to be a personality thing, but feels like a huge step to mention it to anyone

Then don't mention it to anyone,it's not ''anyones life'

@Zeze247 So having a couple of gay friends (male and female) who've walked on both sides of the street, my advice would be to go with what you masturbate about. As it turns out I liked ladies.

If you are sexually attracted to this guy as a person, and he happens to be male, and you get off thinking about him, then maybe you are bi but just never realised..... Good luck

Bexter801 I know I don’t need to say anything but I kind of need to if I want to act on it.

MrSandman you make a good point but it’s bloody scary.

It sounds like a porn cliché, but you could speak with him and ask if he'd be kind enough to help you work out whether you are gay or bi...?