Struggling to wrap my head around a situation I found myself in last night , I’ve been having issues with my bf of 15 months mostly due to his insecurities about me going out and having a life outside of our relationship together.
I’n peticular one of my friends he doesn’t like as in the past she has had an active sex life , totally fine she’s single can do as she likes , I get told I’m going to be tared with the same brush if I’m out with her .
Anyway met up for a final is it on or off and I was determined to stand my ground and let him know it’s unacceptable to expect me not to have a social life or friends .
I sat there listening to how the last week he has been upset doesn’t want it over , he’s not sleeping, missing me , but still won’t budge on the issue of me going out with said friend .
Anyway I sat and listened to him go on about morals and he doesn’t understand why anyone would cheat and messaging others proves intent as his daughters bf has been caught doing the same .
He pulls out his phone to show me something and guess what comes across the screen a POF notification not one put 2 , I said well there you go you have broken my heart and walked out crying , 15 months together and 2 days after I said I can’t cope in a relationship with out Trust snd he’s on a dating site .
Now his txt messages since have been I only went on there to see if you was on there , what utter crap ,
Gutted he thinks that little of me that I would go straight on to someone new when I was trying to ressolve our problems .
He’s sorry wants to make it work but what an absolute hypocrite and liar .
If I’d not sign notifications and we made up and moved forward he could of potentially still been on there .
I’m so upset , I’ve ended our engagement and planned wedding just as well really better to find out now .
Just looking to see what others perspective is
Thanks I’m advance