I have been with my DP for 6 years. Long time mumsnetter but name changed for this. Last night we were sitting on the sofa together watching TV and he had his phone out flicking through messages. I saw he was on a WhatsApp group chat with some friends and they had posted a gif of a girl with huge boobs which made me feel a bit weird because had not though DP would be so juvenile.
So when he went to the loo I picked up his phone. I have never done this before because I consider it to be his business, but I know his passcode from using his phone before. His camera roll had a couple of quite porny images that shocked me because I had not thought he was like that. Of girls being spanked and blow job images.
But there was also a WhatsApp from an unsaved number saying Hope you had a good week but with 😘😘😘 at the end.
I really have no reason to think badly if him apart from this, but it has put me on edge a bit