it was upsetting and quite painful. i didnt want to go in with him but he asked me to just the first time.
The counsellor is very good, she is going to see him on his own now.
He has been very tearful, which is to be expected.
the inlaws have now not been in touch for a month and it was DD,s birthday 2 weeks ago and no card,phonecall or anything so i think we can safely say he,s been cut off, their loss not his.