How many of you moved in as soon as you met each other and are you still together?

[fairyfly]

Did it work even though you moved too quickly?

You've not lost your mind at all, FF. Seize the Day ... sounds really exciting.

Yes the big bouquet man..............

It's not a physical thing, but exactly and perfectly on the same wave length.

sorry you did say I did not read it, sounds as though you want to move in with him

I don't know what i want, he knows this. All he can say is to do whatever makes me happy and start enjoying it.

I'm scared to death tbh, but i am looking at houses to rent on the internet.

It's not a physical thing? Not at all?

sometimes the physical thing comes in totally unexpectedly iykwim!

moved in after two months and five years on married with 1 child and i still feel the same, get the tingly feeling in the tummy etc

Well i love kissing him, i love him holding me and hugging me............it's something more. I fall in love with him when he talks, not when i look at him.

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Think about your boys ff, think hard and then think again. I think that would stop me. (wise old owl emoticon).

DH and I met at uni (freshers week) I was a second year btw (so he was 18 and I was 19). We moved into his room in halls of residence 3 weeks after meeting, were engaged the first week after the summer exams and have been together ever since. That was 16 years ago

I have let him stay for 11 days now, since i met him. I have done nothing but think about my boys and tbh this is incredibly out of character. I am usually so cautious, this time it just felt right for them aswell. I want to take the risk with them, they deserve him. He's a truly lovely decent role model.

OK. Go on then!

Have i just answered my own question

He sounds so nice and you so deserve something nice to happen to you, ff

if he's been stopping 11 days has he paid his way have you sussed out how things will be do you have the same hopes and dreams if so and th eboys are ok with it all then why not. Can you not stay where you are tho

You sound like you like the idea of him. I think. You don't sound in love with him, tbh. But what do I know?

yep. he's paid his way....... he has taken us out off his own back, he has washed up, he has food shopped, he has made my children happy, he has told me off for being short tempered with them, he has taught me to sing in my house again, he has listened.

I want to move, i want to start again with him, i want to get out of this house full of bad karma.

It feels like i am growing up and starting to make sensible decisions, not ones based on my clout.

Do you think Tinker? Maybe you're right. I have no idea. I just know i have not wanted to be without him since i met him. Usually i can;t wait to get my space back.

It doesn't have to be one or the other though does it? You can still wait a few weeks/months? It is different when you have kids though, caution is good.

Think we moved in about a year after we met so longer than you asked about... but we are still together 18 years later.

DH and I did .. still together 10+ years later .. married for 7+

if you take a chance will you cope if it turns out not how you want it