Anyone ever shagged anyone out of spite?

[SwanVests]

I’m considering it. I do actually quite fancy having sex with him but I’m not sure if that’s because I deeply enjoy the thought of his entire life crumbling around him as a result. He’s married obviously but he thoroughly, thoroughly deserves some kind of comeuppance. This is the only way I can think of him getting it.

Thanks for everyone telling me I’m a headcase and the ever helpful .

I don’t really want to have sex with him, I just got these messages out of the blue yesterday, it really upset me and I felt a tiny bit of power in the thought of actually facing him again. But I do want revenge somehow having spent years feeling used and humiliated while he gets to skip off into the sunset. He messaged me via Facebook and made it quite clear he wants to meet up for a ‘catchup’ and to clear up our ‘misunderstandings’. I would never go to the police about it, I’m pretty sure if he’d raped me in the police station they’d have just glanced up and told me I’d bought it on myself.

Anyway, checking out now. I shall namechange and move on. I don’t know what I wanted from this thread really. Just reassurance that it was in fact a terrible idea which was helpful, thanks. It’s not helpful giving a shit load of when someone says they’ve been raped and been completely messed up by the fact they were disbelieved about it. Just for future reference. If you think I’m a troll then report because stupid emojis can actually be really upsetting.

Hi, I am so sorry for what happened to you when you were a teenager . Please don't listen to anyone one who tells you your reaction is crazy, disproportionate. Shock & confusion are normal reactions to a very abnormal experience, having a choice taken from you by that wasn't theirs to take. It has the capacity to shake your belief & trust in others & yourself & you can never really go back to the person you were or reality you had before. It takes time & a safe place with safe people to grieve this loss & come to terms with it. I'm so sorry you have have been treated so badly following being brave enough to report it as that can also feel like going through all the shame & fear again & it is a very lonely feeling & place.. None of this is your fault & can empathise with you completely on a very personal level the desire to take back control of a choice that was taken from you. There are people and places who can listen & understand. You can rebuild trust with yourself & others. Sending kind thoughts xxx

What Bobits said.

Also what Bobits said.

Love, you’ve had overwhelming support on here. And everyone wants you to do the best for YOU
the is probably just because of your title and it’s hard to comprehend. If you haven’t read the full thread
Do not focus on the
Focus on the people that, even though they’re out in the stratosphere, believe you, care about you, worry about you, want you to find happiness for yourself

This man has decided to come back and manipulate you. Don’t let the fucker in. Fuck the fucking cunt
I don’t even know you and I know you’re an amazing strong person. Even if you don’t think that of yourself. And I’m sure others will agree with me