Also. This is my personal advice. Me and DH are a Tinder 'success' story (so far..!!) So this is my stance. I think it's really not helpful when people start chiming in and labelling men in this situation 'twats' or 'shit stains' The relationship didn't progress (or maybe it still will yet...) This doesnt mean the man is Satan. I think if you fall into the habit of being encouraged to believe that every man who a relationship didnt progress with for whatever reason is an idiot or waste of space then you will program yourself to believe you only ever go for idiots. You will start believing that you only attract idiots and you will start to expect to fail.
On MN it is SO prevalent for the vultures to descend to pick the guy to death in this scenarios and label him all sorts of atrocious things. It's bitter and unpleasant and it might be those posters versions of being 'supportive' but it's actually incredible negative re-inforcement, juvenile and judgemental. Lots of these posters will be serial daters of 'idiots' or decidely man-free till death - which is fine by the way - but they seem to have no self-reflection skills whatsoever.
Going into any kind of relationship starts as a 50/50 thing. Now there are obvious wasters who from the outset, just want to mess about because they dont have the emotional maturity to be in a relationship at all and will flag it up very clearly for you to ignore at your leisure. We're not talking about those. We're talking about a normal, nice, fallible bloke. He has his faults. But what are yours? What are you bringing to the relationship? You have to self-reflect. When it ends , you have to have the emotional maturity to say, we weren't suited so this has come to a natural end, not to condemn the guy - because when you do that what you actually do is undermine your own choices - and that can only give you a lack of confidence going forward in your choices. Every relationship/four week thing is a learning opportunity for growth as a woman. How you treat people and how they treat you.
Very few men who are dating are true nasty bastards. They are hurt, defensive, needy, dismissive and clumsy, just like women.
This isn't aimed at you OP. It's about remembering how to have an adult emotionally mature relationship. It's about letting the foundations build themselves. It's also about letting it go if it's really not going to make you happy. It's absolutely about not changing for anyone but being emotionally sensible. It's also not, in any sense of the word about texting.
I have been with my DH for 3+ years now, married 6 months, met on Tinder, no chats were had, no stresses about texting even though we are sometimes both shit at it. We argue, we make up we're really happy. He's a knob at times and he would say the same about me but that's relationships. They have to grow. So yes, that's my two pennies.
You sound ace OP and I think you just need to believe that you've got excellent taste in men, it's just the timing hasn't been quite right so far for either of you. Believe in better and send exes off (through gritted teeth if necessary) with good wishes not typical one sided MN bile. It's cathartic and freeing I promise you.