Hand hold pls he's gone to hospital alone

[AmaraSas]

New DP, twice we have tried to be intimate, both times he has ended up bent double in agony. This time he has rushed off to A&E. He wouldnt let me go with him... men and their bits! So i'm left home alone pacing the floor. I'm worried sick

Anyone got a hug?

That will be just my luck 🙄

Ah sorry. I'm sure it's very unlikely, just thought I'd better point it out as its not the kind of thing that goes away if you stick your head in the sand.

He hopefully doesn't have herpes though, it was just because it was mentioned upthread.

I don't know about herpes. I found earlier that Trichomonas could cause pain.

I'd definitely get checked out just in case. (always a good strategy if you have sex with different people)

He's being ridiculous. If he is in pain, this needs checking out. There's far more to be scared of in not going than in going. Not going won't make the problem go away.

If he's not in pain and this is all some farce to conceal some erectile problem then he's being doubly stupid!

How long have you been together op, it doesn't sound long. I know you referred to him as new so but is it very recent?

You can only be tested for herpes if you're having an outbreak.

Didn't know that Ford. Still, if there's a chance he has herpes, a general STD check wouldn't be an unwise thing.

Just when you think you've read it all.

OP, it's a new relationship. There really shouldn't be all this drama. Just get rid of him and his bizarre penis that one moment is broken and the next isn't

Ball's in his court bizarre penis sorry as it's a serious subject but I did laugh! He's hard work, you don't need it. No explanation after all that? Sounds sort of controlling, he'll know you're worried, as any caring person would be. It's controlling and unkind not to let you know what's happened. Hope you're ok!

Thank you all for understanding and those that knocked some sense into me. I was talking to a rl friend about it all today and we resolved broken penis or not he is seriously playing mind games with me and i am currently in some sort of bizarre testing period to see if i meet the cut.

So i am flunking out of the test, because other stuff is far more important than not being single.

I take it on board all that you say about STI's and clinic appointment will me made just in case.

I am one of those people that cares too quickly but i'm not going to change that for anybody, theres someone out there that will appreciate me for me and not mess with my head.

Thank you all again, MN, in the main, is great. 💝

I hope you're alright OP. After reading the whole thread I also have suspicions he is hiding something unless he is one of those men who're scared of going to the doctors. Mine husband as well. I remember when he had problems swallowing and didn't want to go to the doctors. I googled the symptoms and strep throat matched everything. Eventually he had to go and ask for an antibiotics but what annoys me that instead of going to the doctors they moan and make is feel guilty because they're poorly. Selfish behaviour.

He probably went to finish himself off in his car or had to get home for dinner with his wife.

How did you meet op. Any word from him
Today ?

Not one single word, but to be fair i havent chased either.

I am not sure if i believe any of it right now. We met on a dating site.

Dont think all men are a*holes, so not giving up on finding someone, but this guy has to have a really large bunch of roses, a really good justification for his behaviour with full medical/supporting evidence. That said 💅🏻 computer says no

Good for you girl 💁🏽

Our of interest how long was you together op?

bizarre penis

OP, sorry this date didn’t work out for you. There are some lovely men out there - really. Hope you have better luck next time.

How’s things op?

Imagine that cut scene in a western movie, a few wooden shacks around a dirty deserted street and a tumbleweed rolls by.... pretty much sums things up

😞

At least you still have your sense of humour. Great visual.

No big loss. Or even lucky escape.