I hate having to make this post.
So I don't know why I got involved with him. I was 18, he was 22. He has been a no hoper with jobs. Won't learn to drive and he has no motivation for life. Nothing. I went along being naive I think and if I'm honest, sex was a new and exciting thing with me and I just wanted to meet "the one" and settle down. My life has been pretty shit. Finding my brother committing suicide at 7, all I wanted was my own family.
I got this last year. We welcomed our beautiful little girl into the world. I'm now due again in march with our little boy.
In December he was let go from his job. He's made zero effort to get another. He just expects me to do it all for him. We have a house that we're now loosing. I do a long shift almost 7 months pregnant to clear the debt he put me in and then I have to clean the whole house top to bottom. I've had people (his family) threaten to report me for an untidy house when our little girl was a newborn.
I feel utterly worthless. I don't get 5 mins anymore. I'm dealing with sciatica too that's crippling me as well as rheumatoid arthritis. Even the bins I have to do my damn self. An he just sits there. Getting angry at the xbox.
He won't learn to drive.
He won't help me around the house.
He won't look for another job or even sign on. Nothing.
I've thoughts about adoption for our second. He wasn't planned and we were on contraception. But what life is this? I do overtime to my daughter doesn't go without. My benefits have stopped cause he's with me just there. I'm fed up.
What would you do? Every time we talk it's just a fight