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Why has he gone sad and down all a sudden?

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MidnightStars · 20/12/2017 17:15

I've known this guy 4 months. We have been dating about 2 weeks. Things have been great really happy.

All of a sudden he's been a bit off and weird. I was suppose to see him last night but a few hours before he text to say his grandad has arranged a family Christmas meal. I was gutted but I said that's ok I understand it's your family. He was texting me throughout most of the meal and seemed upset we couldn't do what we had planned. He then said he thought I was being different. I said I weren't and maybe it's because we haven't seen each other in a week.

He then went on to be very apologetic, said he's felt down and weird the past couple days. Said a few small things are starting to get to him. I said everything is ok between us and he said yes def ok between us and for me not to worry.

This morning he text saying he is feeling slightly ok and put his Xmas jumper on to cheer himself up! In confused because I have no idea why he's sad. He's normally so jokey and now he's a bit down.

Part of me feels this is for attention because I don't think he liked how casual I acted to not seeing him but it's been 2 weeks and I'm not a headcase!!

What do other people Think??

OP posts:
MotherofaSurvivor · 22/12/2017 20:52

*his

AnyFucker · 22/12/2017 20:54

Anna...quite the piece of shit aren't you ?

MidnightStars · 22/12/2017 22:07

anna you just trying to goad! My grandpa died today. Thanks for that comment

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AnyFucker · 22/12/2017 22:25

Sorry for your loss, midnight Flowers

ferntwist · 22/12/2017 22:30

OP so sorry about your grandpa. You’ve done the right thing with this immature man 100%. Well done for finishing things with him now and not letting him waste any of your time. You’ll meet someone much nicer.

Gemini69 · 22/12/2017 22:31

MidnightStars

I'm so sorry for your loss Sweetheart

pollythedolly · 23/12/2017 11:01

Anna you twat!

So sorry to hear about your grandpa OP. Thanks

Karigan1 · 23/12/2017 11:06

You have known him 4 months. Maybe there is background you don’t know yet. My partner gets down every now and then. It’s taken a while for him to open up and explain what’s going on. I won’t tell his secrets but now I know it makes sense and I’m glad I stuck with him. Entirely up to you but I’d take him at face value and go round with a little gift to cheer him up. Literally just some minstrels and Netflix was all it took for my guy. Wouldn’t you like someone to look after you if you felt down?

MidnightStars · 23/12/2017 12:33

karigan he could be down. Could be genuine. But he could be messing me around and dating other people. Anyway he's blocked me so no way of contacting him even if I wanted to.

Thanks for you thoughts everyone

OP posts:
SkySmiler · 23/12/2017 12:45

So sorry about your grandad Flowers You had a lucky escape, shown by him blocking you x

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