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If you could do it all again, would you? What, if anything, would you do differently?

11 replies

Ifonlyhewould · 20/04/2007 17:08

Would you still marry DH?

Would you still have divorced DH?

Go on, be honest, spill your guts

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Ifonlyhewould · 20/04/2007 17:16

I would be a little more selfish. I wouldn't give as much of myself in an effort to make things work.
I would also maintain my independence.

YOUR TURN!!

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batters · 20/04/2007 17:24

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NotQuiteCockney · 20/04/2007 17:26

I would still have married DH, almost everything exactly the same. Only change: I would have had 'candid' wedding photography rather than posed. We have a big album full of pictures of me looking pissed off, as I hate having my picture taken, and I wanted some canapes.

collision · 20/04/2007 17:27

I would definitely marry him again as he is the best thing ever!

Would have had a smaller wedding and not 120 people.

I would have had my children just as I did.

No regrets with DH and children at all.

suzycreamcheese · 20/04/2007 17:28

no would do it all again w dh...
..wish had ds earlier though...

MrsSpoon · 20/04/2007 17:30

Yes I would marry DH again but I am ashamed to say I would wait a little longer before having children (not too long, maybe just a couple of years) and appreciated my figure and looked after it better pre children [shallow emoticon].

October · 20/04/2007 17:30

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redhotdiva · 20/04/2007 17:34

not marry 1st husband would have listnen to that little fairy who was on my shoulder saying NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO dont do it god i wish i had listned to her

traveled when i was 18

but would have liked to have met dp when we did and have the life that we have now .

Stillfeelingmessy · 20/04/2007 18:04

I would have done so much differently, if I could go back in time. I probably wouldn't have allowed H back into my life at all, let alone married him!

Budababe · 20/04/2007 18:07

Wouldn't have married DH. In fact would have finished things VERY early on.

However - then wouldn't have DS of course.

Chocolateface · 20/04/2007 18:16

The only thing I would have done differntly is have a much bigger, more extravagant wedding, and a fabulous honeymoon. We had a small do, as we didn't want to get into debt. We got into debt after I gave up work to be a SAHM, anyway.

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